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Lucid Dreaming Techniques
Here's a brief look at some of the best techniques
for bringing the light of lucid awareness
to your dreams. I first published this combined list of techniques in 1993, and
it isn't meant to replace a committed, consistent
study or focus such as the opportunity offered by our teleclasses, but perhaps it can serve
as a jumping off point for those who want to efficiently focus
their efforts without delay. Some techniques are less suitable
to a regular daily work schedule, however, the more you can focus
on the various techniques and lucid dreaming in general, the more
frequent will be your lucid dreams.
[ Master
dream recall: No other practice is more
effective. The main barrier to realizing when one is dreaming is
that our waking and dreaming minds are not connected nearly as much
as they could be with simple intention, practice and focus. Making
a consistent effort to remember dreams will help your waking mind
to ally itself more closely with your dreaming awareness and will
also allow you to become more familiar with your personal dream
content - characters, settings, feelings or sensations that seem
odd (though only after you awaken) because they're often
not a usual part of your waking experience. This will then allow
your waking reasoning and reflective capabilities to be more present
in dreams so that you recognize unfamiliar or unlikely surroundings
or feelings while you're still actually experiencing them
in a dream. Success with lucid dreaming is most likely if you recall
one dream or more per night, in fact you may already be having lucid
dreams and simply not remembering them. So, to increase dream recall:
As you go to bed, clearly ask yourself to remember your dreams when
you awaken in the morning or during the night. When you do awaken,
keep your eyes closed (or shut them if already opened) and remain
as motionless as possible. Gather as many images, feelings or impressions
as you can and then rise and quickly jot them down in a notebook
(which you keep bedside), no matter how brief or vague they may
at first seem. You'll be surprised at how much more you begin to
remember as you write. This is also an excellent way to increase
intuitive capabilities, since dreaming and intuition are closely
related.
[ Arise during
the night: Research has proven that morning
naps after a period of wakefulness are extremely productive times
for lucid dreaming. This is for (at least) 3 reasons: (a) We
have more REM (dream) activity per sleep cycle as the night progresses
(i.e. more dreams, more chance of a lucid dream), (b) There's much
less time between when we fall asleep and when REM sleep begins
than at the start of the night (about 90 minutes compared to 5-20
minutes during a morning nap), so we have more chance of bridging
the wake-sleep "forget-as-you-pass-by" barrier, (c) we tend to sleep
more lightly (with much less or no deep sleep) as the morning approaches.
This technique probably requires the most motivation, but also provides
the best pay-off. Week-ends or vacation are a particularly good
time to try it. The best method is to arise either 1½ or 3 hours
(1 or 2 sleep cycles) earlier than usual, stay awake for 30-90 minutes,
and then return to bed for the remainder of your postponed sleep.
During the period of wakefulness, it's important to "get awake"
to some degree. Some of the best activities for this period are:
taking a midnight walk (lots of fun!), love-making, and especially
meditation (vipassana technique is particularly good). Ideally,
anything that brings or maintains presence of mind.
[ Visualization
(MILD) technique: This technique is extremely
effective, although it can be difficult to focus upon since it's
practiced while falling asleep. The basics are: Before going to
bed, use the autosuggestion method for promoting good dream recall
and the occurrence of lucid dreams, and then (ideally) use the following
technique on a previous night's dream: When you awaken after any
REM period, arouse yourself and recall as many dreams as possible
using the dream recall methods. Before
returning to sleep (while sitting on the side of your bed is best
so as not to doze off before finishing the technique), tell yourself
"The next time I'm dreaming, I want to remember that I'm dreaming",
then imagine you are back in the dream from which you just awoke,
remembering it step by step, scene by scene, except that this time
you see yourself recognizing that you're dreaming (ideally when
something odd occurs) and carrying out some planned activity (see
below). Then lay down, and focus upon your intention followed by
the visualization as many times as you can until you fall asleep.
[ Stay present as you
drift asleep: As you lie ready for sleep,
especially after waking during the night, focus upon your breath
and simply observe any thoughts that arise, without getting caught
by them. If you do, and later "snap back", focus right back on your
breath.
[ Autosuggestion:
As you go to bed, or if you awaken during
the night, put yourself in the frame of mind of genuinely expecting
that tonight or sometime soon you will become conscious within a
dream. Clearly convince yourself in a friendly, assured (rather
than pressured) way, and then let it go like a seed planted in your subconscious.
[ Plan a lucid
dream activity: Realizing that you are dreaming
is exciting - the thrill is great, but can also awaken you, especially
if you're not sure what to do next. Imagine you've really been focusing
for three weeks and all of sudden you realize you're dreaming, only
to awaken from excitement. It's quite common - unless you have some
specific activity to focus on right away. To continue past those
first few moments of lucidity, plan in advance something specific
to do in your next lucid dream. Many people choose flying, but the
options are truly limitless. Let your imagination take you. The
best activities for maintaining a lucid dream are those that engage
you in the dream scenario.
[ Perform reality
checks as a habit: Always Test First
and then Decide when you have even the slightest inclination
that you might be dreaming. In this way you won't miss valuable
lucid opportunities. Also, throughout the day, ask yourself as often
as you can remember, whether you are dreaming, and perform a test
to find out. This may seem silly, but it will carry over by habit
to the dream state, and you will be very glad (for once)
when you find that your check has bounced! The best test is to read
some text, look away and quickly look back. If the words change
- you are dreaming! It helps to try to get the words to change.
A digital watch is excellent for this. If there is no text nearby,
look at your hands for a good 5-10 seconds to see if they appear
wavy or odd in any way - as they most often do in dreams.
[ Be patient
and persistent: Although many people experience
success the first night or during the first couple of weeks, lucid
dreaming is a skill that requires time and focus to master. In this
regard it's more like learning a sport or musical instrument rather
than learning to ride a bike where you get it from one day to the
next for good. Try to maintain a relaxed and playful attitude of
looking forward to your dreams while being willing to let it happen
all in good time. Trying too hard or being too serious can be
limiting factors. Dream recall, lucid dreams and even motivation
all tend to come and go naturally in cycles, and also depend upon
what else is going on in our lives. Continued practice of these
techniques over at least a few months is more likely to bring mastery
than a few intense but sparse attempts - a weekly study group
of people with a like interest is unmatchable for sustained motivation
and inspiration. Once you start on a cycle of focusing on
some of the exercises, stick with it for at least a four
or five days, because consecutive nights seem to have an additive
effect.
[ Keep your life
in balance: The subtle energies, ideology
and realizations connected with lucid dreams and related experiences
are very powerful and often of profound waking influence, at least
psychologically. The approach of "as-much-lucidity-as-possible-as-fast-as-possible"
is strongly discouraged. Such an approach can bring great imbalances
and even unnecessary calamities into your waking life. There’s no
need for fear, but do remain aware of this important point. Remember
that trees stand as tall and withstand storms only as deep as their
roots go, so stay grounded and maintain a healthy outward daily
focus. To help regain balance if trouble arises, eat and sleep well,
and maintain social connections. Other suggestions include getting
a massage, going for extended exercise outdoors, and focusing on
simple day-to-day tasks and therefore removing your focus from dreams
and inner life for a while.
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